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Sending them to their room is essentially imprisoning them, denying them their freedom and withholding your affection. As I got older I began to question the practice after being exposed to TV shows like "Oprah" talking about domestic violence. Just put your self in their place at the specific time, age,etc. An alternative forum run by another moderator. This is one of the nation's biggest dark secrets. THat sums it up for me.
How (and How Not) to Spank Children
The “Spank With Love” Approach Does Not Work, Here’s Why
I'm a calm, rational person, but I'm striking you. I think neglecting to discipline is abusive and others think spanking is. Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it. It made me more rebellious and resentful. This position is acceptable, but not recommended. I remember the first time my adoptive mother ever hit me. Other possibilities for which spanking would not be appropriate include:.
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I didn't develop positive relationships with other people early on in my life because I felt there was some level of violence or some type of degradation that followed it. He didn't spank, but he gave us something worse - death. I think all succesful people were spanked. An older child understands future consequences like grounding or the loss of privileges. I Admittedly Gave Up the Fight. Then upload the files to your webspace which shall be the mirror. OK I've 5 kids ages 14,12,8,6,3 ,2girls,3boys.
Once positioned, the child has relinquished control while the parent has assumed full control. I use my hand but many of my friends use a wooden spoon or paint stick. Also, it gives the parent very good control, and reduces the child's mobility. Last edited by a moderator: In a position similar to that of being "over the lap", the child is able to relax. It can be very soft or quite stinging we tested on our legs first to make sure it wasn't too hard.